Look at how NY has screwed up. People and businesses are leaving left and right. I believe we lost two house seats, and thereby electoral college votes. If I wasn't in the middle of the state, I'd commute from another one.
NYC and SF have a reputation and are international ports, so of course those will be "vibrant". Why don't we take a look at some of the up-and-coming cities, though. Nashville has really picked it up in the last few years, and now look at even the state of North Dakota becoming a boom because of the petrol reserves. You could probably also throw in the state of North Carolina as growing.
So North Dakota is brilliant because of a product that's been underneath their soil for millions of years? Is this sorta how George W Bush was an up by your bootstraps success story by virtue of being the first born son of a President?