Re: New England Prep Schools
Our family just finished this process this past winter and I have goods news for you, you have started early...but you've only just begun. Here is some suggestions for you:
1) Visit schools, a lot of them. Even if you are just taking a road trip and traveling through unofficially. You will be able to add or subtract some schools just by looking at them.
2) Pick about 10 schools and take the official tour and interviews. Doing this will allow you to get a good feel for the school to see if it is the right fit for your daughter and you. You have to be able to tell yourself, "I could send my daughter here!" You will also be able to tell what the schools priorities are. Do they care more about athletics than academics for instance. We made a visit to one top 10 D1 hockey school that it was clear that athletics clearly came before academics.
3) Notice I haven't talked about hockey yet. Be patient. Make sure that during your visits you speak with coaches, that includes the field hockey/soccer or softball coaches, as well as the hockey coach. They will be interested in finding out more about your daughter and seeing her play. All students at Prep school are required to participate in an activity each season. You will also want to speak to the chorale or band director or the head of whatever activity interests your daughter.
4) Finally hockey. Coaches will need to see your daughter play. The best way to be seen is by playing in the Connecticut Polar Bear Tournament at Christmas time and the Rhode Island Panther Thanksgiving Tournament. Both are heavily recruited. Hopefully your daughter's team already goes to one or both of these tournaments, if not encourage it as they are great experiences. Either way the hockey is the easy part. If you can't play in front of the coach video tapes, having coaches call. etc may also be good choices.
Other considerations:
Financial aid - if this is a factor make sure that the school has an endowment that allows families to get what they need. Check this site out as it rates the schools by several different factors and generally includes average financial aid awards.
http://www.boardingschoolreview.com/researchschools.php
You never said were you lived but a consideration for us was how far away is too far. We have spent many hours and weekends traveling around New England with our daughter which ultimately gave her the opportunity to move on to prep school, and we would still like to see her play once in awhile. Fortunately her first choice and the school she will attend is a 2 hour drive for us. I've traveled further to play a single hockey game...
Well I've rambled enough and I'm sure others will have plenty to add.
Good Luck