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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    Quote Originally Posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post
    Unfortunately, all evidence I've seen from women suggests that a lot of men on the free dating sites are toxic incel-types. I'd hedge that over half of them have probably never had a serious relationship, or (if over 30) are bitterly divorced. Many believe they're owed a relationship/sex just because they have some money and will pay for stuff. Some are just there to troll.

    More to the point - no one should be going beyond chatting in the app right now. It's a good time to shut down those apps altogether and focus on other stuff.
    Yeah. I've been talking with an older trans woman on OK Cupid, she's 44 and is amazing. That being said, she was supposed to come to Holland in April so we could meet and spend a weekend together. I think that's been put on hold for now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissThundercat View Post
    Yeah. I've been talking with an older trans woman on OK Cupid, she's 44 and is amazing. That being said, she was supposed to come to Holland in April so we could meet and spend a weekend together. I think that's been put on hold for now.
    I reached out to a couple other people on OK Cupid and Facebook Dating to start chatting, anyway.

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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    Women make dumb comments too: "have you had the surgery or do you just enjoy dressing as a woman?"
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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

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    Headline says it all.
    Probably a lot of marriages that were based on net worth in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post
    Probably a lot of marriages that were based on net worth in the first place.
    Wait. Are you saying pretty girls use men as an ATM? Because that has never occurred to me before.

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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    Quote Originally Posted by Kepler View Post
    Wait. Are you saying pretty girls use men as an ATM? Because that has never occurred to me before.

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    What I'm saying is that I expect a lot of those divorces will be happening in households along The High Line or in the Upper West Side.

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    Girl on OK Cupid and I want to meet each other soon, but are totally bummed out that we can't right now.
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    Wait. Are you saying pretty girls use men as an ATM? Because that has never occurred to me before.

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    And men find those "lovely wives/girlfriends" in their wallet to...well...you know the story.
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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

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    Girl on OK Cupid and I want to meet each other soon, but are totally bummed out that we can't right now.
    Maybe this will be a good opportunity to continue developing the relationship further and create an even deeper bond, hopefully making the first time you meet even more special. Good luck! <3

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    And men find those "lovely wives/girlfriends" in their wallet to...well...you know the story.
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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

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    Maybe this will be a good opportunity to continue developing the relationship further and create an even deeper bond, hopefully making the first time you meet even more special. Good luck! <3
    Courtship is coming back! We'll write each other poems!
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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    I'm also talking with an asexual younger woman. Asexual means she simply doesn't want sex. She loves romance and cuddles, though!
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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

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    I'm also talking with an asexual younger woman. Asexual means she simply doesn't want sex. She loves romance and cuddles, though!
    And I think I have a chance.

    And with boys, I'll put myself back on Grindr. At least there's no pretense. It's all about hookups; we meet, we do it, and hopefully I go home happy. Just seems like men on dating sites talk to me, they promise a lot, we talk for a few days, and they disappear. Enough of that noise.
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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    Started using Coffee Meets Bagel this week. Thus far, three conversations that went nowhere. \_(ツ)_/

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    Quote Originally Posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post
    Started using Coffee Meets Bagel this week. Thus far, three conversations that went nowhere. \_(ツ)_/
    Wasn't even aware they were still around.

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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    Quote Originally Posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post
    Coffee Meets Bagel
    So. JDate?
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    So. JDate?
    Ha! No.

    I mean, I suppose I'm not doing any worse than I was on Bumble. I could always stoop to Farmers Only. Or I could go on JDate for the Russian chicks (or so I hear).

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    Quote Originally Posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post
    Ha! No.

    I mean, I suppose I'm not doing any worse than I was on Bumble. I could always stoop to Farmers Only. Or I could go on JDate for the Russian chicks (or so I hear).
    I'm on OK Cupid. I'm talking to two wonderful women. When this is over, my contact in Chicago is coming to Holland. I'm going to Wayland to meet a 32 year old teacher.

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    Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    Quote Originally Posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post
    Ha! No.

    I mean, I suppose I'm not doing any worse than I was on Bumble. I could always stoop to Farmers Only. Or I could go on JDate for the Russian chicks (or so I hear).
    So for those of you still in the game explain to an Old what the difference between the apps is.

    Here is my impression from listening to people:

    Tinder: let's f-ck unless you're horrible in person!
    Bumble: let's probably date a bit before we f-ck unless you're amazing in person!
    OkCupid: let's not f-ck my rheumatism is acting up!
    Grindr: let's have the gay sex with even less preamble than usual!
    eharmony: let's settle!
    EliteSingles: let's get dou-chey men from BC and USC to pay for our drinks!
    Ashley Madison: let's blackmail you!
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