Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

[FlagDUDE08]

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Picking myself up, dusting myself off, and starting all over again. At least this girl follows a hockey team I actually like.

[collegehcky2]

Picking myself up, dusting myself off, and starting all over again. At least this girl follows a hockey team I actually like.

I've given up on that, it's tough to find a woman that likes the same team. Always Sabres or Penguins fans.

[FlagDUDE08]

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I've given up on that, it's tough to find a woman that likes the same team. Always Sabres or Penguins fans.

What's wrong with a Sabres fan?

[SteveF]

What's wrong with a Sabres fan?

Probably that she's from buffalo?

[FadeToBlack&Gold]

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I've given up on that, it's tough to find a woman that likes the same team. Always Sabres or Penguins fans.

By which you mean "Miller fans" and "Crosby fans".

[FlagDUDE08]

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Probably that she's from buffalo?

I ask again, what's wrong with that? That's where a good chunk of my family is.

[Almington]

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Picking myself up, dusting myself off, and starting all over again. At least this girl follows a hockey team I actually like.

Good Luck to you sir. We'll hold your spot here open until we hear otherwise.

[burgie12]

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Hysterical!

I LOL'ed, but disagree that it's "hysterical."

Not sure if you were going for the "she probably thinks you're gay" angle. But if not, I'll add that as my 3 cents of the I love you conundrum

No, it's a much longer story than I inferred with my original post or that I want to get into here. We met four years ago and I kinda chased her for a little while and then really backed off as soon as I found out that she had a boyfriend, but this year I said "Screw it" and went after her anyways. Again, there's much more to it than that, but I'm not about to go into it right now.

But, the whole reason that I posted my original post this week is that she came up to visit (along with a couple of my brothers from my fraternity) this weekend for the Eagles/Bills game. Sunday was fun and then I took her to the Niagara Falls Butterfly Conservatory on Monday (she loves butterflies) and it was fantastic. Quotes include "Those first steps into the butterfly conservatory are something that I will never forget. Ever" "Nothing that I do this weekend will be as good as this past weekend" "It was almost unfair to be able to see you this weekend and have so much fun and then to have to leave again so suddenly", etc. And, so, I'm p*ssed at myself because I'm torturing myself by chasing so hard and putting both myself and her in impossible situations and I needed to vent and hear everyone b*tch at me for continuing to chase even though I've been friend-zoned.

That changes the situation to the point where at least we all know there's one guy in her life who really doesn't like you when he's not talking to her.

I can think of two, him and her dad. And, really doesn't like you is putting it mildly (obviously).

[FlagDUDE08]

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I LOL'ed, but disagree that it's "hysterical."

No, it's a much longer story than I inferred with my original post or that I want to get into here. We met four years ago and I kinda chased her for a little while and then really backed off as soon as I found out that she had a boyfriend, but this year I said "Screw it" and went after her anyways. Again, there's much more to it than that, but I'm not about to go into it right now.

But, the whole reason that I posted my original post this week is that she came up to visit (along with a couple of my brothers from my fraternity) this weekend for the Eagles/Bills game. Sunday was fun and then I took her to the Niagara Falls Butterfly Conservatory on Monday (she loves butterflies) and it was fantastic. Quotes include "Those first steps into the butterfly conservatory are something that I will never forget. Ever" "Nothing that I do this weekend will be as good as this past weekend" "It was almost unfair to be able to see you this weekend and have so much fun and then to have to leave again so suddenly", etc. And, so, I'm p*ssed at myself because I'm torturing myself by chasing so hard and putting both myself and her in impossible situations and I needed to vent and hear everyone b*tch at me for continuing to chase even though I've been friend-zoned.

Love stinks. Yeah, yeah.

[state of hockey]

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I don't think you are entirely in the friend zone. Instead, you're on the hook.

[collegehcky2]

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I don't think you are entirely in the friend zone. Instead, you're on the hook.

I was actually thinking of embedding the HIMYM episode that goes over that in here, but I figured it was too over the top. You're right, it's the hook.

[MinnesotaNorthStar]

I was actually thinking of embedding the HIMYM episode that goes over that in here, but I figured it was too over the top. You're right, it's the hook.

It's never too over the top...

[burgie12]

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But when they've been dating for 5+ years and you've been on the hook for 14 months, does it really make a difference whether you refer to it as friend-zoned or on the hook? I mean, really, there's not too much difference in the end result.

[state of hockey]

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No difference at all. This answer is still cut the cord.

[leswp1]

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But when they've been dating for 5+ years and you've been on the hook for 14 months, does it really make a difference whether you refer to it as friend-zoned or on the hook? I mean, really, there's not too much difference in the end result.

The answer is that if she can be this verbally intimate with you, have such an incredibly tight relationship with you while professing her love to the BF I would not feel comfortable/ feel too much trust if she decides to ditch the BF. This is the equivilent of cheating without the sex. Woman does not have commitment boundries.