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  • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

    Originally posted by crazytechfan View Post
    I suggest options of things to do out there though. It's not lack of effort on MY part.
    Clearly you are not doing something right. Which isn't a surprise to anyone.

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    • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

      Potentially 3 options on the table here. The newest was one of the more unique attempts. Literally walked up to her and her friend and started talking to her. She liked it, but accidentally gave her mother’s phone number out ( their phone numbers vary by one digit), so I started talking to the mother. Obviously I am not profane when I first reach out, so I made a good first impression and embarrassed the hell out of the chick who’s number I wanted ( and subsequently got from the mrs).

      ..didn’t know girls born in 1990 could drink. Wowzers!
      "Look to the end, no matter what it is you are considering. Often enough, God gives man a glimpse of happiness, and then utterly ruins him"

      -Herodotus

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      • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

        Originally posted by unh_hockey View Post
        didn't know girls born in 1990 could drink. Wowzers!
        This makes me feel old.
        Having a clear conscience just means you have a bad memory or you had a boring weekend.

        RIP - Kirby

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        • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

          Originally posted by unh_hockey View Post
          ..didn’t know girls born in 1990 could drink. Wowzers!
          Well, about half of them...

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          • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

            Originally posted by bigblue_dl View Post
            This makes me feel old.
            You and me both bro
            "Look to the end, no matter what it is you are considering. Often enough, God gives man a glimpse of happiness, and then utterly ruins him"

            -Herodotus

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            • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

              It makes me happy, means I'm that much closer!
              Loose and St Cloud go together. Like milk and cookies. Or bacon and porn. -Brenthoven
              Originally posted by bigblue_dl
              i heart ctf. sdhe is awsdome!!! best ooster ever
              Originally posted by Brenthoven
              Fooperese.
              Saying that ctf is awesome.
              Saying that ctf is the best poster.
              bb_dl chasing after a raccoon: "I'm going to make this *ing skunk my b**ch!"

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              • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

                Originally posted by crazytechfan View Post
                It makes me happy, means I'm that much closer!
                Why would you care? You've been a drunk since your 17th birthday.
                Having a clear conscience just means you have a bad memory or you had a boring weekend.

                RIP - Kirby

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                • Originally posted by bigblue_dl View Post
                  Why would you care? You've been a drunk since your 17th birthday.
                  BS! Though, that was the first time I drank.
                  Loose and St Cloud go together. Like milk and cookies. Or bacon and porn. -Brenthoven
                  Originally posted by bigblue_dl
                  i heart ctf. sdhe is awsdome!!! best ooster ever
                  Originally posted by Brenthoven
                  Fooperese.
                  Saying that ctf is awesome.
                  Saying that ctf is the best poster.
                  bb_dl chasing after a raccoon: "I'm going to make this *ing skunk my b**ch!"

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                  • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

                    Originally posted by unh_hockey View Post
                    Potentially 3 options on the table here. The newest was one of the more unique attempts. Literally walked up to her and her friend and started talking to her. She liked it, but accidentally gave her mother’s phone number out ( their phone numbers vary by one digit), so I started talking to the mother. Obviously I am not profane when I first reach out, so I made a good first impression and embarrassed the hell out of the chick who’s number I wanted ( and subsequently got from the mrs).

                    ..didn’t know girls born in 1990 could drink. Wowzers!
                    It never hurts to make a good impression on the 'rents, especially if this one has potential for an LTR, and she gets along well with her mother.
                    "We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate." -Thomas Jefferson

                    "I confess I enjoy democracy immensely. It is incomparably idiotic, and hence incomparably amusing." -H. L. Mencken

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                    • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

                      Very true, if I was looking for an LTR. Right now, I’m not. I certainly wasn’t when I was unemployed. Its as the saying goes, when you aren’t looking for women you get them. I’m not ( in that sense) and the skys the limit. I went what people would call a ‘date’ a few weeks ago, but nothing came of it. Odder still is that after a few weeks of nothing, she’s talking to me again. I’ll just let it play out.
                      "Look to the end, no matter what it is you are considering. Often enough, God gives man a glimpse of happiness, and then utterly ruins him"

                      -Herodotus

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                      • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

                        Originally posted by unh_hockey View Post
                        Odder still is that after a few weeks of nothing, she’s talking to me again. I’ll just let it play out.
                        I'm not surprised. The way I explain it is: think about what I'd do/think/want, and {insert girls name} doesn/thinks/wants the exact opposite. If you went on a date with a girl, were interested but didn't hear back for weeks, you'd forget about it, no big deal, exactly what I'd do, but a girl will start calling or texting again.
                        Having a clear conscience just means you have a bad memory or you had a boring weekend.

                        RIP - Kirby

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                        • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

                          The trick, which I have not yet mastered, is being aloof enough yet engaging said girl. My weakness is that I try and use weekends as times to meet up, and most people are booked on weekends at some point. Case and point this weekend I invited a girl I met in boston out on Saturday as a group thing ( a huge group!), but shes busy in the AM. To be truthful, it was a counter offer to her wanting to watch the bruins game weds which I could not do..
                          "Look to the end, no matter what it is you are considering. Often enough, God gives man a glimpse of happiness, and then utterly ruins him"

                          -Herodotus

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                          • Originally posted by unh_hockey View Post
                            The trick, which I have not yet mastered, is being aloof enough yet engaging said girl. My weakness is that I try and use weekends as times to meet up, and most people are booked on weekends at some point. Case and point this weekend I invited a girl I met in boston out on Saturday as a group thing ( a huge group!), but shes busy in the AM. To be truthful, it was a counter offer to her wanting to watch the bruins game weds which I could not do..
                            I've been told that the key is meeting new people on the weekends and going out with them during the week. Not sure that it really matters.

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                            • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

                              Originally posted by Almington View Post
                              I've been told that the key is meeting new people on the weekends and going out with them during the week. Not sure that it really matters.
                              In the past, and with the current GF, I've found that to be true. You'd meet somebody interesting on the weekend at a bar, party or some event, and then meet up for lunch or after work drinks during the week. But nothing too "structured" like a date. If that went well, you might plan something for a Friday or Saturday night.
                              "We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate." -Thomas Jefferson

                              "I confess I enjoy democracy immensely. It is incomparably idiotic, and hence incomparably amusing." -H. L. Mencken

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                              • Re: Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

                                Originally posted by Almington View Post
                                I've been told that the key is meeting new people on the weekends and going out with them during the week. Not sure that it really matters.
                                this is my rationale since most people use the weekend time with friends, and weekday time doing very little after work. Sunday afternoons work well too. I've had moderate success with that time period.
                                "Look to the end, no matter what it is you are considering. Often enough, God gives man a glimpse of happiness, and then utterly ruins him"

                                -Herodotus

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