Ok, it turns out I did have enough pictures and I took down the light and unwired all of those connections and the remote jbox connections. I worked out the logic for the wire routing between all of them and verified it was correct. I now have a capped 12/3 traveler on both ends and plan to use a wireless switch in the remote jbox. Which I had planned to do the entire time.
Everything works except for one switched outlet. I KNOW I wired that back correctly because I marked those wires. So it has to be that when I replaced the outlet a couple days ago I screwed up the wiring. If that doesn’t fix it then I have no damn clue and I’m back to square one on that circuit.
First a question then a mini rant
Question: when you say what happens, do you mean what’s the voltage across the red and black?
If I cap all the wires and switch both on, nothing happens. So I’m obviously misunderstanding what you’re asking there
They’re on two fully independent breakers both on the even side. My VERY basic understanding of house panels is that this is the correct way to do a MWBC because the neutral is correctly wired then.
Now the rant:
I 100% agree they’re fine and legal per code. I just think it’s extraordinarily cheap and introduces risk (however remote) that just isn’t necessary.
Per 1994 code, you could use two separate breakers that do not share any function as I understand it. This changed a couple times since then. Now I believe the breaker need to be tied together such that if one trips so does the other. I think.
The problem is that because the builder didn’t want to spend $100-$200 (today’s dollars) there’s now a jbox that is fed by two circuits on a single 12/3 romex. That’s dangerous should someone not understand this is a MWBC and thinks power is cut and doesn’t test (you should always test and hence why I found it)
Part of this stems from my experience in old chemical plants where shit is either abandoned in place or no one wants to pay to do things the “most correct” way and you get “code acceptable, but not common practice” installs that bind you up for $10,000-$100,000 just to fix.
Anyways, let me know about the question part. Appreciate the help as always.