Re: A Thread for prayers, good vibes and what have you
Last week's meeting with the hospice people was postponed and we met Tuesday morning.
While there are a few details to be ironed out, the plan for now is to move my aunt into a shared room (saving a substantial amount of money). Hospice will be providing a caretaker for at least 2 hrs per day, 5 days per week. There's some wiggle room there and they could end up providing 7 days/week. We will also be getting her a caretaker for 8 hrs/day to work around the hospice care so that she essentially has someone with her from wake-up through bed time. Any money saved from the move to a shared room gets eaten up by the caretaker (and then some; also not covered by medicare). The hospice services will be covered 100%.
Now that we've addressed the immediate daily care issues, I still have a lot of work to do regarding her finances. She will be out of money within the next 6-8 months. I've been told her income (hefty pension and SS) precludes her from normal state aid but we were able to get her on a waiting list for a program that is supposed to provide medical services while we continue to pay for her housing/living arrangements (unfortunately that's a 7-12 month wait after her assets fall below a certain threshold that we're 2 or 3 months away from). The social workers from hospice are going to be contacting me in the next few days to schedule a meeting where they can help steer me in the right direction for other financial options.
The hospice evaluation termed her as "end stage dementia" so there is an unspoken concensus that she probably won't make next Christmas. She is now wheelchair-bound, unable to feed herself, and needs to be helped in all physical activities. She is responding to questions with short, often one-word replies but will not initiate any conversation (such as asking to go to the bathroom).
I'm feeling a little better today about her physical/mental situation, but the financial side is still weighing heavily on me. My first concern is her comfort, dignity, and quality of life since she's got so little of any of those that left
Originally posted by MarkEagleUSA
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While there are a few details to be ironed out, the plan for now is to move my aunt into a shared room (saving a substantial amount of money). Hospice will be providing a caretaker for at least 2 hrs per day, 5 days per week. There's some wiggle room there and they could end up providing 7 days/week. We will also be getting her a caretaker for 8 hrs/day to work around the hospice care so that she essentially has someone with her from wake-up through bed time. Any money saved from the move to a shared room gets eaten up by the caretaker (and then some; also not covered by medicare). The hospice services will be covered 100%.
Now that we've addressed the immediate daily care issues, I still have a lot of work to do regarding her finances. She will be out of money within the next 6-8 months. I've been told her income (hefty pension and SS) precludes her from normal state aid but we were able to get her on a waiting list for a program that is supposed to provide medical services while we continue to pay for her housing/living arrangements (unfortunately that's a 7-12 month wait after her assets fall below a certain threshold that we're 2 or 3 months away from). The social workers from hospice are going to be contacting me in the next few days to schedule a meeting where they can help steer me in the right direction for other financial options.
The hospice evaluation termed her as "end stage dementia" so there is an unspoken concensus that she probably won't make next Christmas. She is now wheelchair-bound, unable to feed herself, and needs to be helped in all physical activities. She is responding to questions with short, often one-word replies but will not initiate any conversation (such as asking to go to the bathroom).
I'm feeling a little better today about her physical/mental situation, but the financial side is still weighing heavily on me. My first concern is her comfort, dignity, and quality of life since she's got so little of any of those that left
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