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I'm okay on "guys." Calling me "dude" will leave you ignored.
I'm okay on "guys." Calling me "dude" will leave you ignored.
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Re: Gender Studies I
I call close female friends dude all the time. I think when we get to where we can call a trans woman dude and it carries the same implicit irony we will finally have gotten past the BS on this. Maybe another generation, when everyone knows and only truly horrific scumbags are still using gender labels to hurt and make their knuckledragging points.Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post
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Dude is not my name anyway. I prefer Ms, Miss, she/her, that *****, or, I don't know.. my name.Originally posted by Kepler View PostFacebook: bcowles920 Instagram: missthundercat01
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I know a LOT of females that don't mind "dude." To them, it IS gender neutral. A generic term, if you will. Like "guys" when talking to a group.Originally posted by MissThundercat View PostNever really developed a taste for tequila. Kind of hard to understand how you make a drink out of something that sharp, inhospitable. Now, bourbon is easy to understand.
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Is there a female dude? Dudette seems stupida legend and an out of work bum look a lot alike, daddy.Comment
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I say “chica “. But only to women I know don’t mind.Code:As of 9/21/10: As of 9/13/10: College Hockey 6 College Football 0 BTHC 4 WCHA FC: 1
Originally posted by SanTropezOriginally posted by bigblue_dlHe's probably going to be a superstar but that man has more baggage than North WestOriginally posted by KeplerComment
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Doll, circa 1935Originally posted by mookie1995 View Post
Miss
Darlin'
Sugar
Babe
Honey
Fraulein
Sweet Thang
Senorita
LAAAAAYDEE!
Sweetheart
Shawty
Freak
B-tchLast edited by Kepler; 12-28-2019, 10:27 AM.Cornell University
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Guys and dolls
Not dudes and dolls
a legend and an out of work bum look a lot alike, daddy.Comment
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Re: Gender Studies I
With me, I prefer:
My name
Miss Thundercat
That b-tch
Being called dear, sweetie, honey, etc is okay if my Chosen Family is calling me that.
She, her
"Guys" is okay.
NEVER call me dude. You may think it's an ironic term of endearment, but in my community, we don't like that and we wish people would stop with that.
Miss Amber is acceptable as well.Facebook: bcowles920 Instagram: missthundercat01
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I don’t get bothered by any of the terms mentioned, but I did grow up with everything male-centric so I don’t think I really think about it.Comment
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Fastest way to get sarcastically called "Opa" in Germany.Originally posted by Kepler View PostComment
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Okay... Shawty is fine. Freak is fine (if in bed), but honey, doll, sweetie, and like terms are only fine if you're in the inner circle.Originally posted by Kepler View PostFacebook: bcowles920 Instagram: missthundercat01
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Honey is completely impersonal in the South. You sign as honey, sugar, sweetie, and darlin' at the title closing.Originally posted by MissThundercat View PostCornell University
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The further south you get, especially in the service industry, the female servers call most everyone "sugar," "honey," etc.Never really developed a taste for tequila. Kind of hard to understand how you make a drink out of something that sharp, inhospitable. Now, bourbon is easy to understand.
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While this is true, I'd never say it to a stranger myself. If some southern grandma working the diner counter wants to call you by terms of endearment, that's her business.Originally posted by The Rube View PostComment
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