Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

[unofan]

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The answer is that if she can be this verbally intimate with you, have such an incredibly tight relationship with you while professing her love to the BF I would not feel comfortable/ feel too much trust if she decides to ditch the BF. This is the equivilent of cheating without the sex. Woman does not have commitment boundries.

Meh...I tend to think the whole "emotional affair" thing is kinda a load of b.s., you either have an affair or you don't, and there's certain physical acts involved if you do.

Now if you don't feel comfortable talking about things with your significent other, maybe that's a sign things aren't going so hot and you should re-evaluate why you're still together. But I don't think it's irreconcilable, unlike a true affair.

[leswp1]

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Meh...I tend to think the whole "emotional affair" thing is kinda a load of b.s., you either have an affair or you don't, and there's certain physical acts involved if you do.

Now if you don't feel comfortable talking about things with your significent other, maybe that's a sign things aren't going so hot and you should re-evaluate why you're still together. But I don't think it's irreconcilable, unlike a true affair.

Sounds to me that this gal has given everything but her body to the guy. Once in awhile is OK but if you need that much attention outside your relationship there is a problem within it. Not saying people can't be close friends. Some of my best friends are guys but my husband is in the discussion once in awhile, not outside of it.

[unofan]

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Sounds to me that this gal has given everything but her body to the guy. Once in awhile is OK but if you need that much attention outside your relationship there is a problem within it. Not saying people can't be close friends. Some of my best friends are guys but my husband is in the discussion once in awhile, not outside of it.

Yeah, but we're also only getting the friend-who-wants-to-be-more's side of the story. Having been that guy in the not so distant past, I'm sure there's rose-colored glasses skewing his observations.

[FlagDUDE08]

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I'm back. Not one I want to pursue.

[Almington]

I'm back. Not one I want to pursue.

Your spot at the bar is open.

[FlagDUDE08]

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Your spot at the bar is open.

Thanks. Now that I've had some time to think things through, I still wonder how the hell that one girl stuck with me for two months...

[collegehcky2]

Thanks. Now that I've had some time to think things through, I still wonder how the hell that one girl stuck with me for two months...

Step 1: Boobs
Step 2: ???????
Step 3: Profit

[burgie12]

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Step 1: Boobs
Step 2: ???????
Step 3: Profit

Let's not bring FD's boobs into this!

[bigblue_dl]

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So...what does a guy do when he gets a text message from a random number that says: Hey, (my name), its ______ from _____ bar, want to go get dinner tonight? I have no effing clue who this person is.

[Rimbaud]

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So...what does a guy do when he gets a text message from a random number that says: Hey, (my name), its ______ from _____ bar, want to go get dinner tonight? I have no effing clue who this person is.

Well, you gave her your number, which more than likely means you found her attractive, or at least she was attractive when you were really drunk. I say go for it. At worst you have a funny story. At best, you get to have some fun with a forward, assertive woman.

[jmh]

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So...what does a guy do when he gets a text message from a random number that says: Hey, (my name), its ______ from _____ bar, want to go get dinner tonight? I have no effing clue who this person is.

Ask your friends who you were with at that bar whether they remember you talking to someone by her name, since you were obviously too hammered to remember giving her your number, and, if they do remember, ask whether she was attractive.

[Bakunin]

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So...what does a guy do when he gets a text message from a random number that says: Hey, (my name), its ______ from _____ bar, want to go get dinner tonight? I have no effing clue who this person is.

Say yes and send MNS as a scout.

[bigblue_dl]

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I responded with saying that I didn't have her number saved in my phone, so I'm not sure who this is, when did I meet you there... Apparently I met her about a month ago, her name is Christina, and she's a blonde hair, blue eye, teacher. I vaguely remember her, it is a very, very good bet that I was quite drunk. MNS, was probably there that night, maybe he remembers something...

I told her that I can't do anything tonight, which is the truth, I am planning on going out with some friends, but I maybe another day might work out.

[FlagDUDE08]

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Let's not bring FD's boobs into this!

Dude... -_-

[MinnesotaNorthStar]

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Name kind of rings a bell...but, I can't picture her. Let's be honest, blonde hair and blue eyes wouldn't really narrow it down for you.