Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

[bigblue_dl]

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I rarely post serious stuff in here...but I might have a situation on my hands.

Long story short: met a girl Saturday night at a bar, she's a friend of a friend, we got along great, had too much to drink, and we ended up with our own room at the hotel separate from the rest of the group, etc. etc. Sunday, she had to drive back home to Duluth, but she was hungover and felt ****ty, so I told her that she could nap on my couch for a couple hours to try to feel better. She woke up, and we ended up chatting, watching some playoff hockey and ordering pizza. Had a great time. Before too long it ends up being late, and she doesn't want to drive the 2 hours to Duluth, so she stayed over and drove home(to work actually) yesterday morning. We have been texting back and forth ever since and it seems like it is going well. Now she is planning on staying at my place in a couple weeks when she comes down for a charity benefit for a friend.

This could still go many different directions, obviously, but it is looking like there might be something there, and I'm not sure how I feel about it...I have had a lot of fun hanging out with her, and she has an odd sense of humor that I really like, but really, still too early to tell since I just met her 4 days ago. Right now I just need to figure out if I want to be in a relationship, since I'm enjoying my single life, so I don't lead this girl on.

To make it more complicated, before this girl came along, I was talking with another girl I met, that several around here know (waitress from final five), and so far that has been going great, and I think we are going to go out sometime next week (planned before I met the other girl). Decisions, decisions...

[Bakunin]

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There is no decision. You date and **** the waitress during the week, and you date and **** the Duluth girl on weekends. Somewhere down the line, you have a threeway with them. Or you keep the two separate. It's up to you.

[bigblue_dl]

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There is no decision. You date and **** the waitress during the week, and you date and **** the Duluth girl on weekends. Somewhere down the line, you have a threeway with them. Or you keep the two separate. It's up to you.

If I've learned anything from TV and movies, it is that this doesn't work.

[jmh]

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If I've learned anything from TV and movies, it is that this doesn't work.

Yes, but if you've learned anything ELSE from TV and movies, it's that you have an awesome time doing it until you realize it doesn't work.

[Bakunin]

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I suppose the other option is to pick the one you like least, get her really drunk, and then have MNS pinch hit for you.

[bigmrg74]

I suppose the other option is to pick the one you like least, get her really drunk, and then have MNS pinch hit for you.

She would still have to bean him with a pitch for MNS to get on base.

[crazytechfan]

Really? I thought he was a cheating, lying **********er *******?

That was the guy I dated after PB.

PB and I are still good friends. We have to be... for the dogs' sakes.

[bigblue_dl]

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That was the guy I dated after PB.

PB and I are still good friends. We have to be... for the dogs' sakes.

I would guess that you two get along significantly better when you're not dating.

[crazytechfan]

I would guess that you two get along significantly better when you're not dating.

Hahahaha, well, as you know, it doesn't take much.

[FlagDUDE08]

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While not a right-wing nutjob, but rather conservative, I almost married a not a hippie but very liberal woman. It's called maturity and respect for others' opinions.

And that's what I tried. Obviously it wasn't good enough. Of course, I'm not sure if it helped that there were similar personalities (both very opinionated and stubborn), but not really any common interests. If women only care about common interests, then I'm screwed, because they stretch in some of the weirdest directions that you wouldn't even expect it in some cases, and any interests you would think of as complementary don't exist with me.

And to answer your question, Patman, I thought she was, but I'm not really a good judge of looks.

[MinnesotaNorthStar]

She would still have to bean him with a pitch for MNS to get on base.

It doesn't matter if it's a 500 ft. walkoff or a throwing error...it's still counts the same on the scoreboard....

[Hammer]

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There is no decision. You date and **** the waitress during the week, and you date and **** the Duluth girl on weekends. Somewhere down the line, you have a threeway with them. Or you keep the two separate. It's up to you.

That's a good way to get his house burned to the ground.

[Bakunin]

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That's a good way to get his house burned to the ground.

He's Andre Rison?

[Terrierbyassociation]

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You're not exclusive with either. You don't owe anything to those girls and they don't owe you anything and unless they ask if you are exclusive with them (and you say no) there is no reason to say anything. Just enjoy it. If a girl gets possessive when she finds out and gets upset over it, tell her you didn't betray her and you wanted to keep seeing her to decide if you wanted to be exclusive.

Until then, enjoy it. Contrary to popular opinion not all women are crazy. Just 99.999999 percent of them. There's about 3+ billion women out there, once of us is bound to get lucky.

[unh_hockey]

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Until then, enjoy it. Contrary to popular opinion not all women are crazy. Just 99.999999 percent of them. There's about 3+ billion women out there, once of us is bound to get lucky.

There is an element of luck to it. At first women have the choice, but I think after a while of relationships or hooking up, the guy has more choice. This is only from my own experiences, and from watching friends in relationships who seem to have it the same way.

The above post is why I never get hung up on any one women. The illusion of scarcity is what drives people to settle. This simply isn’t the case. My limited worldly travels, and having lived in the city have erased this concept. Its part of why I enjoy being single, as much as being in a good relationship ( maybe more sometimes).

Last weekend. You know how your friends are like ‘ wow shes cute’. My friends did that and told me to go talk to her. I did. Had to run up, and started a conversation. Long story short, I had a better than expected conversation and ended up with her number. No luck on follow through, but hey..you miss 100% of the shots you never take. This girl was hot too. Really cute. But hey, it came down to their choice but giving it what you got is all you can do!