Singles Part 14: Come Get Some!

[Kepler]

[FadeToBlack&Gold]

Pretty much. It used to be they said they were libertarians, but most women are wise to that being a co-opted term now.

[RaceBoarder]

I've been playing around on BUMBLE for about a week and it's quite surprising the number of Conservative women out there. I don't think it's the politics that aren't getting those guys laid, ha ha...

[FadeToBlack&Gold]

I've been playing around on BUMBLE for about a week and it's quite surprising the number of Conservative women out there. I don't think it's the politics that aren't getting those guys laid, ha ha...

Those aren't women. They're broodsows grazing about for the best male hunter-gatherer with the biggest supply of winter stores they can land.

[RaceBoarder]

Those aren't women. They're broodsows grazing about for the best male hunter-gatherer with the biggest supply of winter stores they can land.

Not wrong... I mean, Real American Values right there...

[MissThundercat]

I find males who put "no fat chicks" on their dating profile and compare women to farm animals are ones who can easily take top 3 in a Jabba the Hutt lookalike contest.

[dxmnkd316]

At least the no fat chicks guys are honest. More like lighthouses than sirens.

[MissThundercat]

But then again, at this age, you take the best of what's available. In my case, dating while trans and over 40 is like going to a liquidation sale only to find out the shelves have been picked mostly clean, leaving you with the best of the slightly damaged, but still usable goods.

[RaceBoarder]

Women do the same thing...

"Must be 6' tall" is a pretty common pre-req on many profiles.

[Kepler]

Whatever gets your motor running.

There's a great line in "Smiles for a Summer Night," when Desiree tells the Captain's wife, "as for what women find attractive, aesthetics is not usually involved."

If you want to appeal to most men, be young and fit.

If you want to appeal to most women, be tall and rich.

But who would want to appeal to most people? Have you met most people?

[Kepler]

But then again, at this age, you take the best of what's available. In my case, dating while trans and over 40 is like going to a liquidation sale only to find out the shelves have been picked mostly clean, leaving you with the best of the slightly damaged, but still usable goods.

If it makes you feel any better, it's exactly the same on the other side of the aisle...

[RaceBoarder]

Whatever gets your motor running.

There's a great line in "Smiles for a Summer Night," when Desiree tells the Captain's wife, "as for what women find attractive, aesthetics is not usually involved."

If you want to appeal to most men, be young and fit.

If you want to appeal to most women, be tall and rich.

But who would want to appeal to most people? Have you met most people?

And this is something that gets lost in the process...

Being up front about what your preferences are makes the process so much smoother.

I fully respect all the women that are clear in their profiles about having multiple kids. Personally, at this point in time, that is a hard pass for me. So I don't want to waste either party's time and risk misleading myself or someone along the way.

It sucks when you are the one who is excluded for whatever reason in the dating world. It especially sucks when you are excluded for reasons that you are open about, but the other person was in (is "denial" the right word here?) about their feelings on the matter.

My last relationship ended because the woman flat out wanted to be part of "wealthy society" but due to several circumstances she realized that her current situation didn't attract suitors from that world. So she kept those feelings/desires bottled up in exchange for forming partial connections with people. It's an effed up system when you realize you got played.

[Deutsche Gopher Fan]

Yeah it’s the same everywhere.

I tried online dating when I was newly single at 35. Couldn’t find anyone under 50 because every dude near my age was obsessed with finding someone in their 20s to have kids.

im sure there are men out there who don’t want kids/already have kids I just stopped looking

[FadeToBlack&Gold]

Women do the same thing...

"Must be 6' tall" is a pretty common pre-req on many profiles.

And that's why lots of men lie on their dating profiles and say they are 6' or 5'11" when they're really 5'9".

[Kepler]

If you like crib play, put it in your profile. 99% will run in horror but the three hits you get will be chef's kiss.