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  • Receiving messages from cis men on FetLife expressing, ahem, sexual desire for me is oddly affirming.
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      • For hooking up, I'm enjoying the ability to do what I couldn't do without receiving parental scorn earlier in life.
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        • Romance is not dead.

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          • Dating Coach: Have you tried flirting?

            Me: I gave her "the look."

            Coach: Show me.

            Me: Bites lip seductively.

            Coach: Have you tried biting your bottom lip?
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            • Credit for directness:

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              • Be careful out there.

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                • Originally posted by Kepler View Post
                  Be careful out there.

                  I can say the same thing about men.
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                  • So that guy who messaged me about being into trans people:

                    I actually met up with him and I'm starting to LIKE him.
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                    • The important thing is to know what you want:

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                      • Originally posted by Kepler View Post
                        The important thing is to know what you want:

                        And you wonder why it's continually you and your hand each night.
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                        • A few big reasons I generally don't go for cis men:

                          A. I like girls. I mean, have you seen girls?

                          B. The men who approach me? They're ones who would have sex with a bagel if it were warm enough.

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                          • Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post
                            A few big reasons I generally don't go for cis men:

                            A. I like girls. I mean, have you seen girls?

                            B. The men who approach me? They're ones who would have sex with a bagel if it were warm enough.
                            A. I have and yes.

                            B. Can confirm, but needs cream cheese.
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                            • C. The ones who approach me are also of the "you owe me sex because I'm a nice guy" variety.

                              And with enough of these messages filling my inbox on dating apps, I grew especially weary of trying to separate wheat from chaff.
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                              • Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post
                                C. The ones who approach me are also of the "you owe me sex because I'm a nice guy" variety.
                                I think this is still fallout from the Madonna/Whore dichotomy, and so it tends to follow Christianity around. The idea seems to be, "I didn't treat you like dirt therefore I'm elevating you therefore you should reward me for my wokeness." Other than 20-something guys who are still getting their sh-t together, guys who have this mindset seem to come out of that sheltered, corn-fed ideology which still views women as Special. Just, instead of Special Bad, now they're Special Good. They can't seem to wrap their minds around the fact that women are just ordinary human beings, as full of crap as anyone else, and just treat them as people, no better or worse. The ones who are kind are worth cherishing and fighting for, and the ones who are mean should be shunned. Just like men.

                                TBH, the women who come off that conveyor belt also seem to suffer from the same malaise, they just often turn it against themselves, which may help explain how conservative men ever get laid consensually -- they find low self-esteem women who expect either a pedestal or a kick in the head.

                                Jesus, just nuke the farms. We can eat Twizzlers. We'll work it out.

                                Last edited by Kepler; 09-15-2021, 01:59 PM.
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