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  • Originally posted by dxmnkd316 View Post
    Also the most dangerous I have to bet.
    Exactly. These are the guys who would assault a transwoman figuring they'll get away with it because she isn't likely to call the cops.

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    • Originally posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post

      Exactly. These are the guys who would assault a transwoman figuring they'll get away with it because she isn't likely to call the cops.
      The equivalent of "come to me, my African Queen."

      Yikes.
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      • Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post
        Honey, if your opening line is "I have a thing for transgendered," STOP RIGHT THERE. And usually, the ones barfing that line up are cis white dudes.

        I'm not here to get you off.
        I'm pretty close friends with a trans woman who shares with me a lot of these messages. Depending on the site you're using it may or may not be fairly normal (if you're on Tinder, for example, isn't this the purpose?), but she'll get these messages on FB even.


        One of my other friends reached out and started hitting on her a while back, and totally panicked when he found she was trans. What can I say? She's cute.
        I gotta little bit of smoke and a whole lotta wine...

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        • Originally posted by Swansong View Post

          I'm pretty close friends with a trans woman who shares with me a lot of these messages. Depending on the site you're using it may or may not be fairly normal (if you're on Tinder, for example, isn't this the purpose?), but she'll get these messages on FB even.


          One of my other friends reached out and started hitting on her a while back, and totally panicked when he found she was trans. What can I say? She's cute.
          On FB and Instagram. It's sad and frustrating to know when I have needs of my own, these people don't even care. And Fade and dx are right; if I say no, they can and will get violent.

          And the amount of these messages I have to sift through is absurdly high. I have a block list the length of the Mackinac Bridge on Instagram and it's only getting longer.
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          • Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post
            On FB and Instagram. It's sad and frustrating to know when I have needs of my own, these people don't even care
            But you can't let the presence of terrible people affect your life. There will always be despicable people. Your time is precious and finite. Don't spend a second more on scum, move on to the people who do care for you.

            This is the Great Cafe Lesson. There comes a moment where you stop having the same fights with the same fools and you put them on Ignore and they disappear from your consciousness. It's as if they never existed. And your life is a succession of interactions with people who respect and value you.

            Life's too short to be mad at attention-seeking morons. You can't shame them and you can't reform them. Just wash them right out of your hair.
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            • Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post

              On FB and Instagram. It's sad and frustrating to know when I have needs of my own, these people don't even care. And Fade and dx are right; if I say no, they can and will get violent.

              And the amount of these messages I have to sift through is absurdly high. I have a block list the length of the Mackinac Bridge on Instagram and it's only getting longer.
              And here I’ve heard women over 35 are invisible!

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              • Originally posted by Deutsche Gopher Fan View Post

                And here I’ve heard women over 35 are invisible!
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                • Originally posted by Deutsche Gopher Fan View Post

                  And here I’ve heard women over 35 are invisible!
                  Around this age, dating is like trying to find the least damaged item in the thrift store that doesn't smell.
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                  • Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post

                    Around this age, dating is like trying to find the least damaged item in the thrift store that doesn't smell.
                    To be fair, this is not just exclusively true for women.
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                    • Originally posted by Kepler View Post

                      To be fair, this is not just exclusively true for women.
                      I feel like I got very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very lucky.

                      Then again, there are plenty of good people out there at all ages. Sure it gets "harder" but kinda the opposite too. Instead of trial and error, you know what you want and what you need and it's a lot easier to say "lolno" instead of "well, maybe I can change her or maybe I can get used to this"

                      nah. We're all flying around early in life not know where the hell we're going to land. At that age, we've all started to find our runways in life. So will the people you give a shot. (And those that don't know won't be given a chance.). Much more likely to match because you both know where you want to land.

                      Or just say fuck it and play standby roulette. My buddy met the girl of his dreams on Tinder. A professor who loves hockey.
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                      When the giraffes start building radio telescopes they can join too.
                      He's probably going to be a superstar but that man has more baggage than North West

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                      • Originally posted by dxmnkd316 View Post
                        Or just say fuck it and play standby roulette. My buddy met the girl of his dreams on Tinder. A professor who loves hockey.
                        The buddy’s wife is the hockey fan professor, or is it Handyman himself?
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                        • Wife is the prof
                          Code:
                          As of 9/21/10:         As of 9/13/10:
                          College Hockey 6       College Football 0
                          BTHC 4                 WCHA FC:  1
                          Originally posted by SanTropez
                          May your paint thinner run dry and the fleas of a thousand camels infest your dead deer.
                          Originally posted by bigblue_dl
                          I don't even know how to classify magic vagina smoke babies..
                          Originally posted by Kepler
                          When the giraffes start building radio telescopes they can join too.
                          He's probably going to be a superstar but that man has more baggage than North West

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                          • Originally posted by Kepler View Post

                            To be fair, this is not just exclusively true for women.
                            It's usually the unattached 35+ men with bigger issues though.

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                            • Originally posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post

                              It's usually the unattached 35+ men with bigger issues though.
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                              • Originally posted by dxmnkd316 View Post
                                Wife is the prof
                                So it is Handyman!
                                "The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command." George Orwell, 1984

                                "One does not simply walk into Mordor. Its Black Gates are guarded by more than just Orcs. There is evil there that does not sleep, and the Great Eye is ever watchful. It is a barren wasteland, riddled with fire and ash and dust, the very air you breathe is a poisonous fume." Boromir

                                "Good news! We have a delivery." Professor Farnsworth

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