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Exactly. These are the guys who would assault a transwoman figuring they'll get away with it because she isn't likely to call the cops. -
The equivalent of "come to me, my African Queen."Originally posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View Post
Yikes.Cornell University
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I'm pretty close friends with a trans woman who shares with me a lot of these messages. Depending on the site you're using it may or may not be fairly normal (if you're on Tinder, for example, isn't this the purpose?), but she'll get these messages on FB even.Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post
One of my other friends reached out and started hitting on her a while back, and totally panicked when he found she was trans. What can I say? She's cute.I gotta little bit of smoke and a whole lotta wine...Comment
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On FB and Instagram. It's sad and frustrating to know when I have needs of my own, these people don't even care. And Fade and dx are right; if I say no, they can and will get violent.Originally posted by Swansong View Post
And the amount of these messages I have to sift through is absurdly high. I have a block list the length of the Mackinac Bridge on Instagram and it's only getting longer.Facebook: bcowles920 Instagram: missthundercat01
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But you can't let the presence of terrible people affect your life. There will always be despicable people. Your time is precious and finite. Don't spend a second more on scum, move on to the people who do care for you.Originally posted by MissThundercat View Post
This is the Great Cafe Lesson. There comes a moment where you stop having the same fights with the same fools and you put them on Ignore and they disappear from your consciousness. It's as if they never existed. And your life is a succession of interactions with people who respect and value you.
Life's too short to be mad at attention-seeking morons. You can't shame them and you can't reform them. Just wash them right out of your hair.Cornell University
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And here I’ve heard women over 35 are invisible!Originally posted by MissThundercat View PostComment
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25...Originally posted by Deutsche Gopher Fan View PostCornell University
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Around this age, dating is like trying to find the least damaged item in the thrift store that doesn't smell.Originally posted by Deutsche Gopher Fan View PostFacebook: bcowles920 Instagram: missthundercat01
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To be fair, this is not just exclusively true for women.Originally posted by MissThundercat View PostCornell University
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I feel like I got very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very lucky.Originally posted by Kepler View Post
Then again, there are plenty of good people out there at all ages. Sure it gets "harder" but kinda the opposite too. Instead of trial and error, you know what you want and what you need and it's a lot easier to say "lolno" instead of "well, maybe I can change her or maybe I can get used to this"
nah. We're all flying around early in life not know where the hell we're going to land. At that age, we've all started to find our runways in life. So will the people you give a shot. (And those that don't know won't be given a chance.). Much more likely to match because you both know where you want to land.
Or just say **** it and play standby roulette. My buddy met the girl of his dreams on Tinder. A professor who loves hockey.Code:As of 9/21/10: As of 9/13/10: College Hockey 6 College Football 0 BTHC 4 WCHA FC: 1
Originally posted by SanTropezOriginally posted by bigblue_dlHe's probably going to be a superstar but that man has more baggage than North WestOriginally posted by KeplerComment
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The buddy’s wife is the hockey fan professor, or is it Handyman himself?Originally posted by dxmnkd316 View Post
"The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command." George Orwell, 1984
"One does not simply walk into Mordor. Its Black Gates are guarded by more than just Orcs. There is evil there that does not sleep, and the Great Eye is ever watchful. It is a barren wasteland, riddled with fire and ash and dust, the very air you breathe is a poisonous fume." Boromir
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Wife is the profCode:As of 9/21/10: As of 9/13/10: College Hockey 6 College Football 0 BTHC 4 WCHA FC: 1
Originally posted by SanTropezOriginally posted by bigblue_dlHe's probably going to be a superstar but that man has more baggage than North WestOriginally posted by KeplerComment
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It's usually the unattached 35+ men with bigger issues though.Originally posted by Kepler View PostComment
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"You get what you pay for."Originally posted by FadeToBlack&Gold View PostCornell University
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So it is Handyman!Originally posted by dxmnkd316 View Post"The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command." George Orwell, 1984
"One does not simply walk into Mordor. Its Black Gates are guarded by more than just Orcs. There is evil there that does not sleep, and the Great Eye is ever watchful. It is a barren wasteland, riddled with fire and ash and dust, the very air you breathe is a poisonous fume." Boromir
"Good news! We have a delivery." Professor FarnsworthComment
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